What does feeling offended reveal to you?
Healing, RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: Feeling offended means you feel confused. Any time you feel offended it simply means that you're feeling two opposing opinions inside and that's why you're aggravated.
How do we end the war on “Being Gay”?
Healing, RelationshipsMoment of Clarity We end the war on being gay by eradicating the word "gay". Gay is not an identity, it’s an activity. Gay is being defined as an identity which it isn’t, this is where the conflict begins.
Why isn’t my partner listening to me?
RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: If you want a partner to listen to you then say something or change the way you say it so they can feel how it will better their situation. Image you are talking to a child, would it work for them?
Creator or relator, what’s important?
Career, Finances, Healing, RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: You are here as a creator to keep creating. Relationships are there to serve your creativity. One of the biggest hindrances we experience is thinking about how others will feel if we actually do that.
A relationship involves only one person
RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: A relationship only contains the illusion of another person. Even though we think that the other person is making us feel bad, or feeling good, they aren’t. A relationship is literally how we are 'relating'.
We’re not on the same page anymore
RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: You never were on the same page and you never will be. Not being on the same page is often used as the reason a couple feel like they’re breaking up but it’s not. Being on the same page is only a perception.
He has a snoring problem, I can’t sleep!
Relationships, The problem isMoment of Clarity If the snoring is not keeping him awake then he doesn't have a snoring problem, however you might have an awake problem that's trying to speak to you... what troubling situation within you is wanting to soothe itself?
Problem is I don’t love my partner anymore!
Relationships, The problem isMoment of Clarity Love is not something we fall into or out of. Love is not something that just happens and we stop feeling it. Love is a state we feel that encourages us to do something kind for another person.
What is marriage and why does it matter?
Relationships, The problem isMoment of Clarity: Marriage is the coming together of two people to create a life together. That initial attraction is evidently real by how it feels, however, how it’s meant to unfold for the best is not known consciously.
Why did my partner cheat on me?
RelationshipsMoment of Clarity: They haven't cheated on you, they weren't even thinking about you. Why not? Because they're unhappy and trying to find this feeling of "satisfied". The pulling away is different for men and women.
What is the truth about good intentions?
Business, RelationshipsMoment of Clarity Good intentions are not what you want to happen but what is actually happening inside you emotionally. So often you hear people say with a disappointment expression, “well I meant well” but ...