Entries by Annemarie Doolin

Problem is I don’t love my partner anymore!

Moment of Clarity Love is not something we fall into or out of. Love is not something that just happens and we stop feeling it. Love is a state we feel that encourages us to do something kind for another person.

He has a snoring problem, I can’t sleep!

Moment of Clarity If the snoring is not keeping him awake then he doesn’t have a snoring problem, however you might have an awake problem that’s trying to speak to you… what troubling situation within you is wanting to soothe itself?

What is the truth about good intentions?

Moment of Clarity Good intentions are not what you want to happen but what is actually happening inside you emotionally. So often you hear people say with a disappointment expression, “well I meant well” but …

How do we end the war on “Being Gay”?

Moment of Clarity We end the war on being gay by eradicating the word “gay”. Gay is not an identity, it’s an activity. Gay is being defined as an identity which it isn’t, this is where the conflict begins.

Are you abusing animals without realising?

Moment of Clarity When you go to the supermarket start thinking about the price you pay for the meat. It’s not eating meat that’s hurting us or the world, it’s our “individual” relationship with that animal who has given it’s life for us.

What does feeling offended reveal to you?

Moment of Clarity: Feeling offended means you feel confused. Any time you feel offended it simply means that you’re feeling two opposing opinions inside and that’s why you’re aggravated.

Why did they cheat on me?

Moment of Clarity: They haven’t cheated on you, they weren’t even thinking about you. Why not? Because they’re unhappy and trying to find this feeling of “satisfied”.  The pulling away is different for men and women.

Tired or bored, take the Tired Test

Moment of Clarity: How can you tell if you’re really tired? Imagine you’ve just won the lottery and see if you’re too tired to pick up the cheque.There’s a condition though, you’ve got to hop on a plane in an hour. Can you do it?

We’re not on the same page anymore

Moment of Clarity: You never were on the same page and you never will be. Not being on the same page is often used as the reason a couple feel like they’re breaking up but it’s not. Being on the same page is only a perception.

Can you fake it until you make it?

Moment of Clarity: No you can’t, fake creates fake. Fake means it’s not real. Thinking about something joyful’s not the same as feeling the joy of it. Feeling excited about the experience is the power, not the thought or affirmation.

Creator or relator, what’s important?

Moment of Clarity: You are here as a creator to keep creating. Relationships are there to serve your creativity. One of the biggest hindrances we experience is thinking about how others will feel if we actually do that.

A relationship involves only one person

Moment of Clarity: A relationship only contains the illusion of another person. Even though we think that the other person is making us feel bad, or feeling good, they aren’t. A relationship is literally how we are ‘relating’.

What is the root of pain and healing?

Moment of Clarity: Perception causes us to draw conclusions and activate certain emotions. These emotions take us towards what we want or away from it. To heal pain we must shift our perceptions.

Giving what you want people to receive

Moment of Clarity: People don’t receive your good intentions, they receive what you’re feeling. People don’t receive your words, deeds or things you give them. Be determined to give the gift of powerful vibrations.

Why isn’t my partner listening?

Moment of Clarity: If you want a partner to listen to you then say something or change the way you say it so they can feel how it will better their situation. Image you are talking to a child, would it work for them?